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Relief that feels like closure

FINALLY GET OVER THEM 

Increase Self-Esteem

Understand and Heal

Learn Secure Communication

You have already lost enough sleep wondering if you will ever get over them

Every day you spend trying to “get over it” on your own is another day your nervous system stays in survival mode. Checking your phone, replaying what went wrong, and wondering why someone who said they cared could disappear so easily.

  • You’ll keep looking for closure from the same person who caused the wound—hoping they’ll finally give you what you needed all along.

  • You’ll keep breaking your own no-contact boundaries, only to feel the sting of rejection all over again.

  • And you’ll stay in that cycle of self-blame and “what ifs,” instead of using this moment to finally reclaim your peace, your power, and your worth.

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the reasoning

Regain Control

You think you are losing your shit, and 9 times of 10 you probably are. This is your opportunity to gain perspective. Instead of being afraid to look at the spiral, learn how to dissect it to see what it really means about what you need in love and relationships.

Community

Join the Chaser to Chosen Community with access to a detox group chat. This is where you connect with other people who are experiencing painful endings to relationships. Having a soft space to land gives you an outlet when the rumination begins to become unbearable.

Live Q&As

After gaining access to the course, you wll be able to join Megan when she pops in live for exclusive Q&A 

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i understand

I felt as if I'd spent my life nursing a broken heart. I know firsthand what it feels like to not know how to let go.

I have dated the full range of Avoidants and it wasn't until my mid 30's that I even found out what Attachment Theory was!

Over the past 5 years, I've helped 1000s of people achieve secure attachment.

  • You keep getting stuck in relationships where you do all the emotional work, while they pull away the moment things start to feel real.

  • You tell yourself you’re “over it,” but your body is still in panic mode — checking your phone, replaying memories, and craving closure that never comes.

  • You keep attracting the same emotionally unavailable partners, no matter how much healing or self-awareness you gain.

  • You know you deserve more, but part of you still believes love has to feel hard to be real, and that belief keeps you stuck in the same painful cycle
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Heal For Real This Time

the avoidant detox

21 days geared towards overcoming the heartache from breakups that seemingly came out of no where.

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you'll receive the following...

Video Guidance 

This is not another e-workbook you purchase to never open again. This detox is guided by 21 videos. 

Community

Your'e overthinking again. Caught in the same cycle of thoughts and you can't call your bestfriend because you have already talked their ear off about it. This detox comes with 24/7 community support so you don't have to go through the pain of loss alone. 

Live Q&A

Megan pops into the community regularly for Q&A for anyone going through a tough time. More support so that you feel less alone.

Drawing Back Your Energy

The part of the healing process that people don't talk about is how much of your energy you have to draw back from overthinking, overgiving. This course is going to allow you to do just that. Draw back your energy and regroup. 

Heal Heartbreak

Each love effects us differently. There is no right or wrong way to heal, as long as your are okay afterwards. But if you want to heal in such a way you never attract the same again and you learn to actually see the red flags before they are on fire flags. This is where you come to do it. 

Raise Your Self-Esteem

As you begin to take a deeper look at yourself and the things this relationship brought up. You will naturally become more confident in who you are and how you show up in relationships. When you know better, you do better.

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Student Transformations

"The Avoidant Detox completely shifted my perspective."

I had no idea just how far gone my thoughts where until this program. Megan really helped me reel it in and make sense.

- Jennifer Brown

"Second time doing this detox"

I did this detox before it got upgraded and it was so good I came back again. I love how it gets to the root of whats playing out.

- Elise Smith

"I wasn't sure it wouldn't work for me."

I was in so much pain and this was just another thing I was expecting to fix my brokenheart. And it did. I followed the videos a day feel so much lighter.

- Brianna Scott

the modules

01

week one 

Detaching With Intention

This week is about stabilizing your emotions and reclaiming your energy after the breakup. You’ll learn how to commit to true no contact — not to punish them, but to protect your peace. Together, we’ll unpack the illusion of early connection, understand the chemical pull of inconsistent love, and begin soothing your nervous system through grounding, nature, and daily self-care rituals that remind your body it’s safe to rest and release.

02

week two 

Reconnecting With Yourself

Once the fog lifts, it’s time to turn inward. This week helps you understand your attachment style, release trapped emotions, and rebuild the trust you’ve lost with yourself. You’ll practice choosing you over anxiety, detox insecure patterns, and reconnect to your body through meditation and mindful self-check-ins. We’ll also bring joy back into your healing with solo “date nights” that remind you how worthy, magnetic, and whole you already are.

03

week three

Rewriting Your Love Blueprint

This final week is where everything integrates. You’ll release outdated beliefs about love and define what safety, reciprocity, and alignment truly mean for you. Together, we’ll identify your unmet needs, reset your energetic frequency, and create closure that actually lasts. By the end of this week, you’ll be ready to embody your secure self — grounded, peaceful, and open to love that feels as good as it looks.

What's My Investment?

Life is continuing to pass you by and every time you think the pain is getting better, you find yourself right back at square one. This is your chance to understand the cycle.

EASY PAY

$37

One Time Investment

  • 21 videos modules
  • 24/7 Community Support
  • Live Q&A
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More Kind Words from Our Friends

"Megan helped me put into words something I'd been feeling for weeks"

-Jessie Jay

"I couldn't stop thinking about them and after the first week, I fould myself doing other things."

- Derrick Saddleback

"The community became my support. Knowing I always had someone ready to talk me through a difficult time was amazing."

-Karina Suarez

still have questions?

FAQ

Still don't have the answers you were looking for? Feel free to contact me megan@finallychosen.com

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What's My Investment?

This is your chance to make sense of the pain. Navigating relationships alone can be tricky. If this heartache feels familiar then it's time to try something different.  This your chance to stop this lesson from repeating its self with another person.

EASY PAY

$37

One Time Investment

  • 21 videos modules
  • 24/7 Community Support
  • Live Q&A
LET'S BEGIN!
who am i?

Not that long ago I was breaking no contact with hand written letters and butt dials

I know first hand what it feels like you are losing control after the ending of the relationship. I created this detox specifically for you. You gain perspective over the most common questions and start making solid waves forward.

You deserve a that chooses you with a full body yes. If you have never experienced that, then it's time for you to expand what is possible for you in love. 

The Avoidant Detox is where you come to get over your ex... for good.Â